How to Pick a College That’s Right for You

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Posted On: April 12, 2017
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Key Points

  • Knowing how to pick a college starts with a clear answer to why you want to go and what you hope to gain.
  • Family legacy, peer pressure, and rankings are weak reasons on their own to choose a school.
  • Confirm that each college offers your intended major and the opportunities you need to excel.
  • Visualize daily life on campus, visit when you can, and talk with current students.
  • Gather feedback from parents and teachers, but make the final decision your own.

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Quick answer: To learn how to pick a college that fits, start with why you want to go, then research academic programs, teaching style, campus culture, size, and location instead of relying on rankings. Visit or talk with current students, compare schools with official data, and gather feedback from people who know you before you decide.

I can’t stress this enough: knowing how to pick a college that’s right for you is extremely important. As an Assistant Director of Admissions at Dartmouth College, one of my favorite responsibilities was connecting with students at school visits, college fairs, and on-campus events. During my time in the admissions office at the College, I met students who thought deeply about what they wanted in a college experience, and through research, realized that Dartmouth was a perfect fit.

Conversely, I met several students who weren’t considering Dartmouth for the right reasons. Here are a few examples that frequently emerged:

Rethink These Common Reasons for Choosing a College

1. Major Not Available

Student: “I am really excited to study nursing at Dartmouth! It’s my passion.”

Surprisingly, many students made the mistake of mentioning a major not available at Dartmouth. If you know what you want to study, you should check the school’s website to see if it will be possible for you to specialize in your preferred area.

2. Family Legacy

Student: “I want to go to Dartmouth because my dad, granddad, and uncle went there.  My parents expect me to continue the legacy.”

While family expectations often drive many of our decisions, it’s important to chart your own path. Picking a college that your parents or grandparents attended may have changed dramatically in the past 40, 20 and even 10 years. The only way to know if a college is going to be a good fit for your needs and interests is through a thorough understanding of your goals and the ways a college will help you.

3. Peer Pressure

Student: “I’m applying to Dartmouth because all of my friends are!”

Picking a college that’s right for you is one of the first important decisions you’ll make regarding your future. This is your chance to make a personalized and individualized decision that will best help you meet your goals. Accordingly, be willing to walk away from the pack.

4. Prestige/US Rankings

Student: “Dartmouth is a great school. It always scores highly in the US News and World Report rankings.”[1]

Many students will choose a school because of its prestige. As our look at what college rankings actually tell us explains, while a school’s reputation can indicate a school’s skill in an area, it doesn’t always consider a school’s performance relative to how the student will learn over the course of four years, and shouldn’t dictate your decision. A highly ranked college or university may not provide your ideal learning environment.[2] Another consideration when choosing a college that’s right for you is thinking about whether a school will provide you with opportunities that will help you excel as an undergraduate student and beyond. For instance, maybe the school doesn’t have a solid record for placing students in a particular field or publishing research. These are all things you should consider when picking schools to which to apply. Although a school may be listed as “the best” in school rankings, it may not be the best school for you.

What factors are driving your school selection process?

With thousands of colleges and universities in the United States alone, how do you know you’re picking colleges that are right for you?

Listen to Joel Butterly, the Co-Founder and CEO of InGenius Prep, discuss his thoughts on rankings in our podcast here:

How to Pick a College That’s Right for You

Here are a few steps I encourage all students to take as they prepare to make decisions. Ideally, you should take these steps before you build your college list.

Step 1: Decide Why You Are Going to College

This question may seem silly; however, very few students can answer this question confidently.

When I begin working with students, they often have a vague understanding of why they’re pursuing post-secondary education. Some will say their parents have always wanted them to go to college, whereas others will say it’s necessary to get a good job. In this case, both answers mean that the student still needs to fine-tune exactly what they plan to get out of a college education. Whether it’s to cultivate critical thinking skills that will prepare them to become global leaders or to explore a specific interest, going to school should be directly connected to an overarching goal that will carry the student through the next four years of personal and professional exploration. The most convincing applications come from students who have cultivated a sense of purpose for their lives.[3]

As you choose a college that’s right for you, you need to consider your long-term goals. Will a specific university help you meet them? Or are there better opportunities elsewhere?

Step 2: Visualize and Visit

After you know why you want to attend college, an important step is to visualize exactly what your experience will be like. Think carefully about every detail. What is your dorm life like? Are you rooming with someone interested in the same major as you? Do you share a home state? What classes are you taking in your first year? Are you starting directly with your major, or do you need to complete general requirements?  Do you recognize most people on campus, or are you only familiar with a few people on your floor? What do you do on weekends? Answering questions like this will help you understand the type of college environment in which you’ll thrive.

If you have the opportunity, you should make sure to visit the schools on your list. For a comprehensive guide to taking advantage of school visits, look through this article: 21 Tips to Capitalize on a College Visit.

Step 3: Ask Your Network

Once you’ve figured out why you‘re going to school, have visualized what your ideal college experience looks like, and have seen the campus, it’s a good time to solicit feedback from those who know you best. Your parents will offer helpful feedback on your ideal learning environment and even on amenities that may help you feel comfortable in your new home. Your teachers, who have watched you grow as a scholar, can offer their insights on how you learn and possibly skills that will further nurture your intellectual growth.

It’s important to remember that you should have a clear idea of your wants and needs before soliciting feedback, as your voice can get lost in the expectations, hopes, or ambitions of your family and school mentors. Their observations are essential, but should only be one factor out of many on which you base your decision.

Bottom line: Whether you’re building a school list in your junior year or making decisions in your senior spring, choosing a college that’s right for you should be your decision.

Compare Colleges With Official Data

Once you know what you want, check it against reliable numbers rather than reputation. The National Center for Education Statistics, part of the US Department of Education, runs College Navigator, a search tool that lets you look up schools by name, state, programs and majors, and type of institution, then compare them side by side. [4] Use it to confirm that every school on your list actually offers the major you want, the first mistake on the list above.

Pair that research with each college’s own pages. Admissions sites, department pages, and career and research office websites show what students actually do there, from first-year seminars to undergraduate research. Our guide to public vs private colleges can also help you think through how size and structure shape the day-to-day experience. When you are ready to turn your research into a balanced list, these tips on how to make a college list will help you avoid common missteps.

Questions to Ask Before You Commit

Once you have a list of schools you are excited about, test each one against a few practical questions. Does the school offer the major you want, and can you switch majors easily if your interests change? How large are classes in your first two years, and who teaches them? What do students do outside of class, and does that community appeal to you?

Think about support, too. Ask how students get academic advising, research opportunities, and internships, and how the career center works with first-year students. Look at graduation rates, which colleges publish in their Common Data Set, to see how many students finish in four years.

Finally, picture a normal Tuesday, not a campus tour day. Where would you live, eat, study, and spend your free time? Talk to current students if you can, sit in on a class, and read the student newspaper. The right college is the one where you can see yourself learning and growing for four years, whatever its ranking.

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Frequently Asked Questions

How do I pick the right college for me?

Start by defining why you want to go to college and what you hope to gain. Then research programs, teaching style, campus culture, location, and size, and visit or talk with students to test your impressions.

Should I choose a college based on rankings?

Rankings can help you discover schools, but they do not measure how well a college fits you. A highly ranked school may not offer your ideal learning environment or the opportunities you need in your field.

What factors matter most when choosing a college?

Key factors include your intended major, class sizes, teaching style, research and internship opportunities, campus culture, location, and size. Weigh them against your own goals rather than someone else’s list.

How can I tell if a college is a good fit?

Picture an ordinary weekday there, from classes to meals to weekends, and see whether it appeals to you. Visiting, sitting in on a class, and talking with current students are the best ways to check.

Is it a good idea to choose a college because my parents went there?

Family history can be meaningful, but a campus may have changed a great deal since your parents attended. Choose a school because it fits your own goals and interests.

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Sources

  1. U.S. News & World Report. (n.d.). National universities rankings. U.S. News. https://www.usnews.com/best-colleges/rankings/national-universities
  2. Pacific University. (n.d.). Why good campus atmosphere matters in choosing a college. Pacific University. https://www.pacificu.edu/blog/why-campus-atmosphere-matters
  3. Suttie, J. (2020, August 6). Seven ways to find your purpose in life. Greater Good Science Center. https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/seven_ways_to_find_your_purpose_in_life
  4. National Center for Education Statistics. (n.d.). College Navigator. U.S. Department of Education. https://nces.ed.gov/collegenavigator/

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